Saturday, December 29, 2007
Happy New Year from Alice
Now, we look forward to the New Year. Once again, we say, "Where did 2007 go?!" Time keeps marching on, and we come closer and closer to the time when we will be at home with our Lord. Meantime, let us live our lives in such a way that He is glorified and His work is furthered.
The book I wrote about Ed's last eight years finally came out two weeks ago. It is available on Amazon.com or by contacting Judson University- wanderson@judsonu.edu The title is Do Not Go, My Love: An Odyssey of Eight Years with Stroke and Dementia. I am praying that it will be of help to some people who are experiencing what we went through.
May I wish you all a very wonderful New Year, full of God's blessings.
Alice
Sunday, December 9, 2007
I'm Home!
I want to thank all of you for your prayers and best wishes for my recovery. In many ways my recovery is somewhat of a miracle. God has been so good to me and my family. The time at Sherman West Court nursing facility was just the right thing for me. It literally "got me on my feet" so that I can walk and have much better control of my leg muscles. I had Occupational Therapy and Speech Therapy as well. One thing I'm working on very hard is to loosen my right jaw muscle. I have a device called a TheraBite which helps with this. I must be faithful in this, or I won't be able to open my mouth very wide.
We received our first copy of my book, Do Not Go, My Love: An Odyssey of Eight Years with Stroke and Dementia. The book will be in some of the Christian Bookstores. Amazon.com can handle it, but they may be slow in getting the book out.Borders Books will be able to get it also. A better way might be to contact Warren Anderson at wanderson@judsonu.edu
I am hoping that this book will be of help to people who are going through similar circumstances.
I pray God's blessing on you.
In His Great Service, Alice
Monday, November 26, 2007
Thanksgiving in a Nursing Home
First, the newlyweds, Andrea and Tyler came. They are so happy and eager about the future, in which Tyler will be getting his MBA. Later, Ruth and Naomi came, while the guys were watching the game and before dinner. Sandy cooked her first turkey and everyone said it was delicious. At 5:00 p.m., nine family members and two friends came here to Sherman West Court. The wonderful people here had set up the Conference Room with a TV and prepared the table for desert. Wonderful pies were eaten—looked yummy—but that’s all I can do—look! Maybe someday I’ll be able to eat again and taste food again. It would be nice, but not essential.
We did our traditional thing—everyone saying what he/she was thankful for. How precious to hear them as they all thanked the Lord for His blessings, especially in regard to my health. We then watched Ratatouille, a funny cartoon. I was a party pooper and had to go to bed before it was done. They had to finish watching it at Mark’s house. Anyway, it was so good to be with them. I can only imagine how much planning and sacrifice went into getting this to happen.
I’m getting stronger every day. Sleeping better at night, walking better, working very hard on Speech Therapy, especially my almost locked in jaw. God has been good—He’s here, right in this very room, and I am thankful.
Alice
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Still Here at Sherman West...
Yes, I am still here at Sherman West Court. My walking has improved, but I strained a muscle in my right knee on Friday afternoon. Hope it gets better soon. The therapists are thorough professionals and very kind. Many are from the Philippines—so we talk about Ed’s and my four-month missionary time there. God is still in control, and I’m trying my best to be a good patient and a PATIENT patient. Thank you all for your prayers, cards, visits. They are much appreciated.
Love, Mom, Grandma, Alice
Friday, November 16, 2007
Through November...
Mom (Alice, Grandma, Aunt) is continuing to improve at Sherman West Nursing/Rehab.
Her face and skin are much more "normal" looking right now. The swelling has subsided considerably. Other positives: the pick line is now out, the stomach feeding pump is gone (feeding done now through the peg and gravity), and Mom's physical, occupational and speech therapy is going very well.
She was hoping to be home by Thanksgiving, but the doctors and staff agreed that she should stay at the rehab facility until December 4th. Our family will make sure that she has plenty of attention on Thanksgiving Day including a special family gathering at Sherman West in the evening.
Weekly visits to the UC will continue each Tuesday. During the next visit, the ENT staff will work on her trache, which has become a problem again. On November 27th, Mom will have a CT scan done to begin the process of assessing the results of the past two months of therapy. The knowledge that we are in God's hands is a comfort to all of us. We will "wait upon the Lord."
As always, please continue your prayers and emails. They are greatly appreciated.
Sincerely, JT:)
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
A time to become stronger...
So please continue to pray for our Mom's recovery at this time. She knows that people are praying for her and that the Lord has responded by allowing her to survive the re-irradiation treatment. She is so grateful for friends and family that she has. She is always grateful for the Lord and the comfort of knowing that she is "in His hands." Please continue your emails and cards as well. She may not be able to respond to you right away, but as she gets stronger she will. Hopefully, the next update will come directly from her.
JT:)
Monday, October 29, 2007
A Tale of Goodbyes and Setbacks....
After taking Mom to Sherman West Rehab, my brother Mark on Friday noticed that her vitals were not only low, but on the verge of becoming lethally low. He alerted the nursing staff which made the call to send Mom to the ER at Sherman Hospital. It was a close call because while waiting in the ER, her white cells became virtually none existent. She was admitted to the hospital and immediately given the appropriate antibiotics and testing. As I write this blog on Monday, our Mom continues to receive careful watch and treatment at Sherman. Her G-tube was also fixed today so that it doesn't leak and cause discomfort. She will be at Sherman Hospital for another few days until she can slowly gain a minimal threshold of health. Many thanks to the nursing staff at Sherman West for making a quick decision to send our Mom via ambulance to the ER. It might have saved her life.
Please continue to keep our Mom in your prayer. The Lord has allowed her to survive this far along in the experimental re-irradiation program of UC. Pray that she can gain more strength everyday from this point on-- feeling more like a human being again. Pray also for some positive results based upon the re-irradiation and chemotherapy. She thanks all of you for your prayers and encouragement based upon the emails and cards.
Sincerely, Jack :)
Monday, October 22, 2007
FIRST NIGHT I HAD A GOOD SLEEP...
FEEDING WAS DONE IN TIME TO GET ME A GOOD SEGMENT OF SLEEP."AND SO HE
GIVES HIS BELOVED SLEEP." I PRAISE HIM! I FEEL ALMOST LIKE MYSELF.
I'LL WORK ON E-MAILS TODAY. BE SURE TO GET THAT DISNEY THING IN.
IMPORTANT, I THINKS. INFLUENCES MILLIONS OF YOUNG, IMPRESSIONABLE
PEOPLE.
THE FEEDING, THROUGHOUT THE NIGHT, WAS ZAPPING MY SLEEP. NOW, I WILL
GET IT ALL DURING THE DAY- PART OF 24 HOURS. SO, SLEEP!!!!!!! THEY
HAD TO WAKE ME FOR RADIATION THIS A.M. I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER ALREADY.
THEY HAVE THE BLOODWORK AT THE LAB. THEY'RE CHECKING MY THYROID.
THEY'RE SOON GOING TO GIVE ME BENDADRYL AND I WILL BE SLEEPY.
I LOVE YOU ALL DESPERATELY.
YOUR MOM AND SISTER, ALICE :)
HEBREWS 11:1
Sunday, October 21, 2007
Last Round of Treatments at the UC Hospital
I saw her yesterday and she looked better. I think she has recovered some of her strength while being at the Sherman West Rehab facility. As always, please continue your prayers. If you can, it's always great to have your response posts linked to this website/blogsite. She will also be able to access email in the next few days.
JT:)
Saturday, October 13, 2007
Back in Elgin...
Our Mom survived Andrea's wedding with all of the long travel and the excessive heat last Sunday. I was talking to Mark and we agree that there was clearly answered prayer last week. My Aunt Ethel, who drove Mom back to UC Sunday, put it this way in an email she sent me:
"... the whole "admission" was a miracle... your Mom wrote on the back of a Kleenex box the way to the hospital from the north; the valet service was closed but a couple gave me their parking space and had a wheel chair they used to the curb so I took that one; I had trouble managing all the suitcases, etc, so several people helped us into the elevator, out, etc; no one was at the admission desk so I asked the security guard (waving the white envelope) if I couldn't just go up to the sixth floor because my sister was to be admitted there and he said "Oh, yes!"; as I was trying to proceed Keesha, one of Alice's nurses, just checked out and HAPPENED BY and recognized her and took the wheelchair while I took the other stuff, up to the 6th and over to a room being cleaned.. I'm sure by God's plan JUST FOR HER; as she got in I helped her into a gown and onto the 'facility' and then into the bed; prayed w/ her and got off to Warsaw... home by ~11:30 our time!!
MIRACLE after MIRACLE and I'm so very grateful to the Lord. Alice looked lovely and elegant! I wondered several times earlier during the day if this was really a smart thing... even if not "smart", I believe it was the RIGHT THING!"
Without a doubt, the Lord worked overtime to allow our Mom to make it through the wedding on such a hot day without AC.
Again, thank you all for your prayers and support!
JT:)
Thursday, October 11, 2007
The Wedding
I prayed that if God wanted me to be at Andrea's wedding, I'd be there. I prayed that I would not start coughing or do something else that would be disturbing. I was in His hands, and He, indeed, helped me. The wedding was beautiful and meaningful. The chapel was exquisite. Being a VERY old church, there was no air conditioning--the heat and humidity made it necessary for the bride to sit down. I did OK, but was glad to get into fresh air. My darling sister, Ethel, drove me back to the hospital and then made the long trip back to Indiana. She was determined to be wherever I was! The result, though, was that I was badly dehydrated. Dr. Aham spent much time and energy getting me back into shape so that I could continue Chemo and Radiation the next day. I am very grateful to him. I am looking forward to more energy and strength as I get back my nutrition, etc.
May God bless you and make your life a blessing to those around you. Share Jesus. He's the most important One your friends and acquaintances will ever encounter--the results are eternal, In His Great Service, Alice, Mom, Grandma, Mrs. Ed
Monday, October 8, 2007
Beautiful Grandmother
Friday, October 5, 2007
Looking Forward to the Wedding...
Without a doubt, Mom is looking forward to going to her granddaughter Andrea's wedding this Sunday afternoon in Milwaukee. After the wedding, she will travel directly to the UC Hospital for her final round of chemotherapy/radiation (over a week). The UC doctors and staff will most likely add a few extra days of therapy to make up for the days she lost a few weeks ago. After this, there will be about one month of healing and then testing for any results.
As usual, our Mom is comfortable in her current situation. Her love for family, friends, and the Lord remain central to her life right now. Please pray that she has the strength to make the extended trip to see her granddaughter's wedding this Sunday. It will not be easy to do. Also, pray that she can get through this last round of cancer treatment. JT:)
Friday, September 28, 2007
LOTS BETTER!
Monday, September 24, 2007
UP AND DOWN
Love to you all. Alice
Psalm 50.
Margaret Brady came. What a delight to be with her. She has been such a good friend and always will be. She is doing wonderful work at North Park University.
Saturday, September 22, 2007
September 22 Update
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Update- Doing a Bit Better...
With this in mind, I can report that Mom (Alice, Grandma, Aunt) is doing somewhat better than the last update. Her blood pressure is stable and her white cells are coming up a bit (the last I heard they were at 4-- still dangerously low). After an afternoon visit today, Tom said that Mom remained very weak and sedentary in her bed, but was alert and conversational (although difficult through her trache). It was also nice that the Towners, from First Baptist of Elgin, were able to visit Mom today at the UC. As a caution, we still need to be careful that she has time to sleep and is free from exposure to germs and viruses.
This evening they moved Mom out of the ICU and back into her normal floor area. The UC Oncology department has indicated that they will give Mom an extra week to heal, and then, hopefully, continue her cancer treatments-- even working in the two lost days from last week. Certainly all of this is contingent upon her recovery. Please continue your steadfast prayers for our Mom. Even in her frail condition, I know that she can feel your love, concern, and prayer through Christ, our Lord.
Please feel free to post your thoughts on this blog site (the "comments" section). I know she will eventually read them. As a friend, former student, or relative, your posts really do encourage her. Thanks! JT:)
Monday, September 17, 2007
Update- Need for Even More Prayer
However, yesterday, Mom was extremely lethargic and experiencing the chills. Not able to get to her computer, I read to her some of your emails. I think that encouraged her a bit. Let's see, I read emails from Tom's family (Abby, Zach, Sam, Jen, and Tom), the Blatts, Aunt Ethel, and showed her Naomi's birthday picture. When I left her last night, her temperature was brought down from 102 to 100. She remained very, very weak.
I talked with the UC staff this morning and they said that early morning Mom needed to be moved into ICU because of low blood pressure. White cell blood count is still dangerously low. Doctors today will remove one of her mediports because they think it might be a contributing source to her infection. They will also monitor her very closely.
So, like Ru was saying in the last post, please continue your prayers for Mom during this critical time.
JT:)
Thursday, September 13, 2007
Prayer Request
I spent the night at my cousin Liz's house in Western Springs and had a delightful time with her and her family.
This morning when I got back to Mom's room, there were eight to ten people around her bedside. I wondered what in the world was going on! Here's what happened. Her white blood cell count has been low all week, but early this morning it dropped dangerously low. She also developed a fever. Right before I arrived, she tried to get up and fainted back onto the bed. The nurses were alarmed and called the team of people into the room.
Clearly, she has an infection, and because of this Dr. Cohen has put a hold on all her chemo and radiation treatments. Please pray that she recovers today. My sweet, courageous, persistent mother was so disappointed that she couldn't go to radiation today and keep on the schedule! I am just thankful that this scary episode happened while at the hospital rather than at home. She was able to get help (I.V. antibiotics and fluids) immediately.
Because she needs to minimize her chances of any more infections, they're moving her to a private room today.
Ruth
Monday, September 10, 2007
Reflect-It's always too soon to quit.
I must not weaken, because I think it is for this reason that I am here. The last devotional book shows me that the Lord has pushed me through my illness to THIS place. Here is where I want to be--the University of Chicago Hospitals. Here is where I am and will humbly, as did the Apostle Paul, seek to do His will.
There have been a few weak moments when I thought, "Is it worth it?" Those thoughts are gone. I await His will and leading. "For those who want to save their life will lose it (Chemo only with about a year to live), and those who lose their life for my sake will find it." (Possibility of a carotid burst) Matthew 16:25. I pray for His strength, which He has promised, and which I claim. Alice
I'm feeling lots better
Back to UCH Treatment # 3
Sunday, September 9, 2007
Update- Round Three...
As a family, we seem to have every day covered for visitation this week. If you want to contact Alice, still the best way is via email or even posting comments on this website.
Despite some of the breathing and trache problems from last week, Alice's spirit seems to be very positive and upbeat. She always reminds us that we are in God's hand, just as she is right now. Please continue to keep her in your thoughts and prayer. Thanks JT:)
Thursday, September 6, 2007
Update- The Trek of the Trache: A continuing Saga, I guess...
Wednesday, September 5, 2007
Reflect- The drab turns to COLOR
Update- A Difficult Night
Evidently,
So she went home without the trache tube. Unfortunately, in the late evening before going to bed,
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
Reflect- Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees...
Monday, September 3, 2007
Update- University of Chicago Tuesday Check-ups
Every other Tuesday Alice (Mom, Grandma) goes to the University of Chicago for a check-up. The hospital staff takes her vitals and looks closely at her white cell blood count. It is important that the UC doctors know how well Alice is responding to the intense chemotherapy and radiation of the the previous week. We pray that today will bring some good "ongoing" news.
As "Alice Thompson Update" gets started, we hope that this will be a better way for all of you to get quick up-to-date information about Alice's health. She and all of us as family members will do our best to keep this site current. Many thanks to Nick Carver for helping to get this site up and going. As always, we thank you all for your prayers and support. JT:)
Welcome!
My book, "Do Not Go, My Love" is scheduled for publication at the end of this month and tells the story (true!) of the last eight years of my husband, Ed's, life and his, and my, struggle with his declining health. I'm hoping to be able to sign copies at Judson College's Homecoming weekend.
Right now the big struggle is with the recurrence of my throat cancer. I'm undergoing a special course of treatment at the University of Chicago Hospital, designed for people who have already undergone radiation for cancer but have a relapse. It involves intensive radiation and chemotherapy. After 2 of 5 full weeks of treatment I've lost my hair but not my spirit!
I welcome your comments (post them below) and love your emails sent to me at edalthom@gmail.com. Bookmark this page so you can check back on my Journal regularly or, if you know what it means, you can subscribe to this blog by clicking on the RSS feed indicator. It's probably the best way to keep up to date!
Talk to you soon!
